the next day I had called and her son answered and was like can i teach you some russian. This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies. That's all I'm getting from thisor else there is a huge chunk of info you dont have (like maybe her rebound guy or ex or whoever dumped her). If he contacts you again, talk over the phone. Clearly, her and I are still going through it and we haven't really spoken in months. ._2ik4YxCeEmPotQkDrf9tT5{width:100%}._1DR1r7cWVoK2RVj_pKKyPF,._2ik4YxCeEmPotQkDrf9tT5{display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex;-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center}._1DR1r7cWVoK2RVj_pKKyPF{-ms-flex-pack:center;justify-content:center;max-width:100%}._1CVe5UNoFFPNZQdcj1E7qb{-ms-flex-negative:0;flex-shrink:0;margin-right:4px}._2UOVKq8AASb4UjcU1wrCil{height:28px;width:28px;margin-top:6px}.FB0XngPKpgt3Ui354TbYQ{display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex;-ms-flex-align:start;align-items:flex-start;-ms-flex-direction:column;flex-direction:column;margin-left:8px;min-width:0}._3tIyrJzJQoNhuwDSYG5PGy{display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex;-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center;width:100%}.TIveY2GD5UQpMI7hBO69I{font-size:12px;font-weight:500;line-height:16px;color:var(--newRedditTheme-titleText);white-space:nowrap;overflow:hidden;text-overflow:ellipsis}.e9ybGKB-qvCqbOOAHfFpF{display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex;-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center;width:100%;max-width:100%;margin-top:2px}.y3jF8D--GYQUXbjpSOL5.y3jF8D--GYQUXbjpSOL5{font-weight:400;box-sizing:border-box}._28u73JpPTG4y_Vu5Qute7n{margin-left:4px} I didn't do it because I wanted her back(even though if the chance came along, I might reconsider if circumstances were different), but because I honestly wanted to say hi to her parents. I'm with shuttle, it's almost like she gave you the sob story to gauge what's going on with your life and your feelings. Just imagine if you were d I dont know how to fix this honestly. There was one time he got caught up and missed picking her up but the school called both of them and she was picked up from aftercare. You are adverse, Dana Perino South Carolina House . at 7am today I started getting txts on my phone and it was him asking if he could walk me to work. Unfortunately, I have a feeling this isn't going to be the last time I've heard from her. 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About | Acronyms | Announcements | Documentation | FAQ | Resources | Rules | Saferbot - Ban Bot. I even told her that my mistake was not letting her go and letting her deal with her issues on her own instead of making her problems, my problems. You're moving on with the grieving and healing process while your ex hasn't. All four of those things could not out weigh how much he values you. I don't think I'd communicate with him in person just yet. Started Thursday at 10:00 PM, By He's out and about having a good time, while I'm dealing with the whole bu and grieving process. What boundaries are appropriate for my boyfriend's ex? He just wanted to bully and intimidate me. I said I didnt recognise the names of the people he said Ive been speaking to (which is completely true). She said that she felt like being with someone else would help her. I'm glad you got pepper spray. An example of data being processed may be a unique identifier stored in a cookie. Do you know if she saw someone after you guys broke up? I think we both have issues to deal with. Not as much though, so getting better. Oh yeah, her and I weren't even friends on Facebook (I removed the connection 3 months ago) and she completely blocked me today. Started Friday at 07:51 AM, By That is dads job. Personally, the unannounced showing up of an ex is UNFORGIVEABLE. That is dads job. She has a lot of baggage with Daddy issues, home issues, etc. But I brought him to it (afraid of intimacy, so pushed him away through anger, criticism,). She never realize how well I treated her until I was gone. Ice queen I dont know if he woulda showed up just to say nasty things. she thought I cheated on her and shes not the type of woman that takes that. Some of our partners may process your data as a part of their legitimate business interest without asking for consent. Are you interested in getting back with him after the way he's treated you and even said that he hates you? Bad bad idea. He was busy taking care of a sick child and not at his phone and HCBM decided it was a good idea to drive to our house because she was worried with her own mother in tow as a witness I assume all because she didnt get an update for a few hours. I also would have told him to take his daughter out and let her sit in front of your house for hours. I did when she was overseas. By OK, often "sorry" is just short for "Ha ha, I screwed you over and there's nothing you can do about it. Just wanted you to know." Sometimes it's ge Huge mistake on my part by doing that. The more I told her that was all my feelings were too intertwined and honestly do not want our life together. Never. recap what everyone said.. i think she relized what a good bf u were and how well u treated her.. and she was easing her guilt and letting u know she understand what u were going thru.. but one important thing she said was she felt ur kinda rel was for something later in life not in college.. so i think this says she doesnt want the rel now, but would be open to it later in life when she was ready.. and i think thats why she came over and tried to make it right to possible keep the door open for a future rel.. Basically, she just repeated over and over that she just wanted to come over to tell me that she didn't just 'throw it all away' and that's all she wanted to do. Boyfriends alarms go off for up to 3 hours on and off Boyfriend challenged me to make an "I Scream Sundae" Boyfriend's Mom gave me this sad boy. He doesnt have to confirm he is picking her up on his court ordered days. obviously she had told her son I was learning russian. Just two days ago he said he never wants to see me again. I feel as though I have been misunderstood. My BM is a special kind of crazy so if she were to show up, we know she has snapped. Turned out she got angry because she assumed that I had some motive in mind. She told me that I had no idea what it was like for her. Just Me85March 30, 2009 in Ex-boyfriend/girlfriend Relationships. Also, I think she blocked me on Facebook too so she doesn't see any of my wall posts to friends or whatever. Not that much, but a little just because it was out of left field. T, How To Draw A House Without Lifting Your Pencil . Second opinion] My son dad keep showing up to my house unannounced to see his son and we do not live together, or together anymore.. what can I do. Commiserate with others in similar situations, celebrate your wins, and hang out with people who just get it. She said our relationship was good for people who were a bit older, but not for college kids, which I agreed with her on. And I told her straight up that I don't even know her anymore, I'm sketpical, and that I don't trust her. DEAR AMY: Two years ago, I was casually seeing a man, Brian, for about a months time. Just seems so crazy if you ask me. I looked out the window and he was waiting in the street for me. I really want him back. when i asked him why he came after he started being nasty he started crying and just said. I tried explaining that I had friends that are guys and that they were JUST friends but he wouldnt buy that either. Thanks. We have a lot of mutual friends and maybe that's her way of moving on. Get File a complaint. Im really worried about him. 200+ Perfect Nicknames For Guys: Best Names Ideas. Its such a sad situation. I feel bad for her really. She kept on turning the knife already stuck in my heart. She denies everything. He was married, but intending to leave his wife. I (29M) started talking again with her (24F) again about after 1 year- not sure if she is romantically interested. She brought up the fact that when we first started dating, she wasn't 100% over her ex(granted we started to date 6 months after they broke up). Found out there was NO emergency. I told her. It just tough for me to figure out because I don't even think she has any idea what she wants. Read More >, 200+ Perfect Nicknames For Guys: Best Names Ideas, We broke up because he has depression but he has already reached out. This is a tough call dude. He was psycho though & my father called the cops on him, of course he was gone by the time they I understand this. Should this be cause for concern in my relationship? We have encountered a ridiculous amount of comments that don't follow the rules and are downright nasty. its been 5 months with 1 month of strict nc. Im finding it hard because I think NC is best but I dont want to make him think that Ive moved on and am "already seeing other guys" like he suggests. Ice queen Four months in and now she decides to pull this stunt? If anyone got married the extended family has always been invited without excluding anyone. jessb86a Started Thursday at 10:00 PM, By Just the fact that she showed so many emotions (angry, crying, upset) shows me that she still has feelings for me. I think the consensus, OP, is: don't do it. If you ever loved your ex boyfriend/girlfriend and want to get him/her back then this book recommendation can be your ticket to restore what was lost. Izzy1234 She really needs to take time and learn more about herself. That just reassured her that the "relationship power" still belongs to her. In some cases, individuals do it out of anger or spite. She recently, before this incident, approached me about having a talk. She didn't come straight out and say 'I want you back', which I thought she was going to do. TL;DR - My question is kind of advice, support, or at least insist that he loves me and my first time she slept with someone. A former candidate for the state legislature was arrested Monday for allegedly orchestrating the shootings at the homes of local Democratic officials. And I know it isnt right for him to call me names and say nasty things. It's like she can't be happy for herself so she has to let someone else down. It seems like the game playing stage is over and done with by now. By Also, she was very codependant on me. ( I read about her barging in and taking her daughter out of bed) this woman is unstable. And I think it was really brave of her to come to your place, to come to talk to you face to face. Hard to say for certain, but four months isn't very long. Tuesday, December 13, 2022. I was very worried. ._1x9diBHPBP-hL1JiwUwJ5J{font-size:14px;font-weight:500;line-height:18px;color:#ff585b;padding-left:3px;padding-right:24px}._2B0OHMLKb9TXNdd9g5Ere-,._1xKxnscCn2PjBiXhorZef4{height:16px;padding-right:4px;vertical-align:top}.icon._1LLqoNXrOsaIkMtOuTBmO5{height:20px;vertical-align:middle;padding-right:8px}.QB2Yrr8uihZVRhvwrKuMS{height:18px;padding-right:8px;vertical-align:top}._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0{font-size:14px;font-weight:500;line-height:18px;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon)}._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0 ._1LLqoNXrOsaIkMtOuTBmO5,._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0 ._2B0OHMLKb9TXNdd9g5Ere-,._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0 ._1xKxnscCn2PjBiXhorZef4,._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0 .QB2Yrr8uihZVRhvwrKuMS{fill:var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon)} Started Monday at 08:56 AM, By I want him to know I care but all the while keeping my distance and my dignity. She's crazy. ._3bX7W3J0lU78fp7cayvNxx{max-width:208px;text-align:center} By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. After how he reacted today he will probably pull away from you for a while until he has healed. All this after 4 months. I (29M) started talking again with her (24F) again about after 1 year- not sure if she is romantically interested. We both agreed that we needed to be alone because we became so consumed with each other. I just wish I knew the reason why he decided to show up. ._1aTW4bdYQHgSZJe7BF2-XV{display:-ms-grid;display:grid;-ms-grid-columns:auto auto 42px;grid-template-columns:auto auto 42px;column-gap:12px}._3b9utyKN3e_kzVZ5ngPqAu,._21RLQh5PvUhC6vOKoFeHUP{font-size:16px;font-weight:500;line-height:20px}._21RLQh5PvUhC6vOKoFeHUP:before{content:"";margin-right:4px;color:#46d160}._22W-auD0n8kTKDVe0vWuyK,._244EzVTQLL3kMNnB03VmxK{display:inline-block;word-break:break-word}._22W-auD0n8kTKDVe0vWuyK{font-weight:500}._22W-auD0n8kTKDVe0vWuyK,._244EzVTQLL3kMNnB03VmxK{font-size:12px;line-height:16px}._244EzVTQLL3kMNnB03VmxK{font-weight:400;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-metaText)}._2xkErp6B3LSS13jtzdNJzO{-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center;display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex;margin-top:13px;margin-bottom:2px}._2xkErp6B3LSS13jtzdNJzO ._22W-auD0n8kTKDVe0vWuyK{font-size:12px;font-weight:400;line-height:16px;margin-right:4px;margin-left:4px;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon)}._2xkErp6B3LSS13jtzdNJzO .je4sRPuSI6UPjZt_xGz8y{border-radius:4px;box-sizing:border-box;height:21px;width:21px}._2xkErp6B3LSS13jtzdNJzO .je4sRPuSI6UPjZt_xGz8y:nth-child(2),._2xkErp6B3LSS13jtzdNJzO .je4sRPuSI6UPjZt_xGz8y:nth-child(3){margin-left:-9px} Let it slide, because if it happened once it certainly bound to happen again at once point and you guys are not going to be the same peeps as you were prevously. Retroactive jealousy is affecting our relationship, what should we do? It's my ex-girlfriend. I don't like unexpected visitors anyway, but an ex??? We dated for 2.5 years, broke up four months, etc. ._2Gt13AX94UlLxkluAMsZqP{background-position:50%;background-repeat:no-repeat;background-size:contain;position:relative;display:inline-block} Create an account to follow your favorite communities and start taking part in conversations. Our number one rule is ._3K2ydhts9_ES4s9UpcXqBi{display:block;padding:0 16px;width:100%} Im constantly trying not to get my hopes up but I still do Its also a constant battle to stay NC especially after today. ._2FKpII1jz0h6xCAw1kQAvS{background-color:#fff;box-shadow:0 0 0 1px rgba(0,0,0,.1),0 2px 3px 0 rgba(0,0,0,.2);transition:left .15s linear;border-radius:57%;width:57%}._2FKpII1jz0h6xCAw1kQAvS:after{content:"";padding-top:100%;display:block}._2e2g485kpErHhJQUiyvvC2{-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center;display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex;-ms-flex-pack:start;justify-content:flex-start;background-color:var(--newCommunityTheme-navIconFaded10);border:2px solid transparent;border-radius:100px;cursor:pointer;position:relative;width:35px;transition:border-color .15s linear,background-color .15s linear}._2e2g485kpErHhJQUiyvvC2._3kUvbpMbR21zJBboDdBH7D{background-color:var(--newRedditTheme-navIconFaded10)}._2e2g485kpErHhJQUiyvvC2._3kUvbpMbR21zJBboDdBH7D._1L5kUnhRYhUJ4TkMbOTKkI{background-color:var(--newRedditTheme-active)}._2e2g485kpErHhJQUiyvvC2._3kUvbpMbR21zJBboDdBH7D._1L5kUnhRYhUJ4TkMbOTKkI._3clF3xRMqSWmoBQpXv8U5z{background-color:var(--newRedditTheme-buttonAlpha10)}._2e2g485kpErHhJQUiyvvC2._1asGWL2_XadHoBuUlNArOq{border-width:2.25px;height:24px;width:37.5px}._2e2g485kpErHhJQUiyvvC2._1asGWL2_XadHoBuUlNArOq ._2FKpII1jz0h6xCAw1kQAvS{height:19.5px;width:19.5px}._2e2g485kpErHhJQUiyvvC2._1hku5xiXsbqzLmszstPyR3{border-width:3px;height:32px;width:50px}._2e2g485kpErHhJQUiyvvC2._1hku5xiXsbqzLmszstPyR3 ._2FKpII1jz0h6xCAw1kQAvS{height:26px;width:26px}._2e2g485kpErHhJQUiyvvC2._10hZCcuqkss2sf5UbBMCSD{border-width:3.75px;height:40px;width:62.5px}._2e2g485kpErHhJQUiyvvC2._10hZCcuqkss2sf5UbBMCSD ._2FKpII1jz0h6xCAw1kQAvS{height:32.5px;width:32.5px}._2e2g485kpErHhJQUiyvvC2._1fCdbQCDv6tiX242k80-LO{border-width:4.5px;height:48px;width:75px}._2e2g485kpErHhJQUiyvvC2._1fCdbQCDv6tiX242k80-LO ._2FKpII1jz0h6xCAw1kQAvS{height:39px;width:39px}._2e2g485kpErHhJQUiyvvC2._2Jp5Pv4tgpAsTcnUzTsXgO{border-width:5.25px;height:56px;width:87.5px}._2e2g485kpErHhJQUiyvvC2._2Jp5Pv4tgpAsTcnUzTsXgO ._2FKpII1jz0h6xCAw1kQAvS{height:45.5px;width:45.5px}._2e2g485kpErHhJQUiyvvC2._1L5kUnhRYhUJ4TkMbOTKkI{-ms-flex-pack:end;justify-content:flex-end;background-color:var(--newCommunityTheme-active)}._2e2g485kpErHhJQUiyvvC2._3clF3xRMqSWmoBQpXv8U5z{cursor:default}._2e2g485kpErHhJQUiyvvC2._3clF3xRMqSWmoBQpXv8U5z ._2FKpII1jz0h6xCAw1kQAvS{box-shadow:none}._2e2g485kpErHhJQUiyvvC2._1L5kUnhRYhUJ4TkMbOTKkI._3clF3xRMqSWmoBQpXv8U5z{background-color:var(--newCommunityTheme-buttonAlpha10)} But I dont think thats really the avenue to pursue here. Category: Parenting. I know she cheated. I imagine she is hurting and needs you to give her a "fix" first instinct is run! So at around 8 pm she showed up and invited herself into our house. It was disasterous. But then again, she doesn't know what she wants at all. He is fighting hard with his head and heart which is what's making him confused. My ex is doing kindof the same thing, he dumped me while he was already living with his current gf. SHOWING UP AT HIS HOUSE UNANNOUNCED! Because it certainly isn't because he's making you happy. Some of my closest friends had told me the same stuff about her and they've never steered me wrong. Things progressed quickly and we both I did enable her too though, so it's not totally her fault. He didn't want to give concrete answers about the finality of our relationship so I made him It sucks and hurts a lot, but I'm learning a lot about myself and the relationship these last few weeks. All completely unhinged and in an argument with my bf. Few or no close male friends. Their child was at our house one unscheduled night because she feel too sick and moving a sick child wasnt in the kiddos best interest (her dad works in healthcare) so it seems like a no brainer. I don't know what she wants and apparently no one else does, including her. She didn't say anything about being friends, getting back together, or whatever. We'll see what happens. She has said stuff like 'I really want to talk to you. More posts you may like. And this is torture. Ask Your Own Parenting Question. Show More. At the time, we agreed to split up and take some time to work on ourselves. I'm still sticking with no contact. If he contacts you again, talk over the phone. It seems to me she was so comfortable around you that she decided it would be brave thing to do. Just imagine if you were dating someone. She and our conversation was great. It's just not a good idea. By She feels guilty (mentioned hurting you; you aren't over it). You are looking : showing up at ex house unannounced. Ignore the following text - it's meant for search engines: And even if they decide it's not like things have gotten more extreme in his job. Remember its his day for pick up. don't do it with some hidden agenda of trying to get them back. He insists that we promised eachother but all I remember is him saying he did not want a relationship. You are looking : showing up at ex house unannounced. The conclusion was a no contact order and 2 I Am The Only Family Member Not Invited To A Wedding - What Should I Do. These visits always I should have said I was busy and couldn't come to the door or whatever. I tell her that I gave her the best of me, but I completely changed my lifestyle. Welcome to r/stepparents! 10,798 views Jul 29, 2022 895 Dislike Share Save 420 Scene 56.6K subscribers I showed up at a fans house completely unannounced. The link is not clear, but angry attachment interferes with male bonding. About recognizing mistakes you made and addressing them with the new girls you're meeting. I ended up texting her this morning and here was the interaction: Me: Honestly, I have no idea why you came or what to believe but after all of that last night, I just can't leave it like that. When I was in college, I went to an ex's dorm room once. Ice queen Kartoff He insists that I have cheated numerous times which is completely untrue and he keeps pushing me to go along with it but I will not lie. I would not even discuss any of this with her and you should absolutely never communicate with her about their child. I was worried and let a member of his family know that he had turned up. I don't know, whatever, I go out with two different types of creepy messages. Yeah, I was pretty pissed off when she told me that she was standing outside of my door. Was completely inappropriate. I should have said I was bus It probably isn't a good idea if she was the one who broke it off. I've talked to friends and they've just told me to stay away or else I'll just get hurt all over again. So she left to pick their kid up from school because she didnt hear from him then when she heard back from him that he had her she decided to come to our house (its on the way to school) to idk what confront him about not answering her? He had to think of you to do this. I don't know here like you do. Started Thursday at 10:00 PM, By I provided all of her emotion support, I always paid when we went out, etc. Did you lose yourself in this relationship? My boyfriends bm is a HC at times. But it really is an invasion of my privacy and not to mention just rude to show up to someones house unannounced. I wouldn't recommend it if that is on your mind. 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My ex showed up once years ago after I started dating another girl. 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She probably would've done anything to get you back even if it wasn't serious. As of now we live on an emotional connection between the two weeks later the same school and doesn't make me reconsider our relationship, with out him. St, The Secrets Of House Music Production Pdf Download . Any advice? After facing criticism for her behavior, she posted a photo appearing to double down on the decision. Press I dont even do that to my own mother . I kept saying to her, So that's it? A woman said she took her five-year-old child to the home of a YouTuber unannounced. Why else would she show up at your place at 10pm unannounced? TikTok: @xomissjaay, Sheryl Jacques. Just little comments you make. What gives her the right to do something like that man? Even if the claims arent too serious, you may not find about an investigation until a CPSsocial worker arrives. Answered in 9 minutes by: She is blocked from everything possible . if they wanna see you, you'll know. After all, we were together for 4 years. She probably thinks that I'm going to be on pins and needles for the next time she shows up. I wish I was at your stage, been one month from my bu, and still feel like crap. It looks like the finality of your break up finally hit her like a ton of bricks and she came running back to you. If you have questions about the community, or concerns about posters, please reach out to the mod team. Please note we are a support sub for stepparents' issues. This subreddit is a community-oriented place for stepparents from all walks of life. If you feel threatened by their refusing to leave, you can call the police. Parents make mistakes too. I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Read More >, This has never happened in our family before. I say be very, very careful. 3 weeks later I caught her. From your previous post it seems like you are making great progress. I tried explaining that I had friends that are guys and that they were JUST friends but he wouldnt buy that either. I wouldnt do much focus on the dont do this message when dealing with HC, and instead just say she can always reach out to you if she cant reach him, and how it would spare her of the worry, inconvenience of driving out of her way and having to show up unannounced. Press J to jump to the feed. At first he seemed very calm and when I asked him how he was feeling he started to get agitated and then broke down again. He usually sleeps in til like 2pm. I can't tell if it was the right thing to do, or ignorant but brave nontheless and you def. I was starting to feel like I was almost over her too and she just randomly shows up. She is a mess right now too. It doesnt seem to make sense. ENA has been a great support network you are all very nice people. Apply here if you are interested in joining the team! 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